Why Bother Leveling Up Your Pussy Eating Skills?

"Why go the extra mile with oral sex skills?" may be on your mind. But here's the thing: mastering the art of pussy eating will change everything for you both.

It's about creating a passionate bond that extends well beyond the bedroom, not just about her enjoyment.

Let’s break it down.

I. Deepens Emotional Connection

It demonstrates to her that you are interested in her pleasure rather than merely the goal when you take the time to eat pussy properly. She can know you're totally there because of the intimacy and intensity. By strengthening emotional ties, this type of attentiveness makes your connection more robust and satisfying. Believe me, when she feels valued and seen, that energy will permeate every aspect of your relationship.

II. Unlocks Her Wild Side
III. Breaks the Routine—Adds Adventure
IV. Makes Her Crave You
V. Boosts Your Sexual Confidence
VI. Prevents Bedroom Miscommunication
VII. Gives Her Unique, Tailored Orgasms

Leveling up isn’t just about performing tricks; it’s about becoming the partner she can’t stop thinking about.

Learning to eat pussy is an investment in mutual pleasure, daring closeness, and a deeper relationship. And who wouldn't desire an influence like that?

Do you feel prepared to go from "good" to "legendary"? Take your game to the next level with these seven pussy eating tips.

7 Game-Changing Pussy Eating Hacks Every Man Should Master

Most guys think they’ve got pussy eating down, but if her reaction isn’t mind-blowing, you’re missing something. These 7 pussy eating hacks will challenge what you know and take her pleasure to a whole new level.

Hack #1 - Try Edging

Edging is like dancing on the edge of pleasure—bring her close to orgasm, then back off just enough to keep her wanting more.

Watch for signs like quickened breathing and tense muscles, then change your technique or slow down to keep her on edge. Patience really does pay off when the final climax is explosive!

Marco practicing edging by bringing Ivy close to orgasm and then reducing stimulation to prolong pleasure.

Hack #2 - Get Kinky

Kink is something that is not always paired with oral sex, but there is no reason it cannot be. If both of you are consenting parties, using spreader bars, adding a blindfold, handcuffs, or other BDSM elements can be a lot of fun.

The element of surprise and relinquishing control can be incredibly arousing for many women. Just make sure to establish boundaries and safe words beforehand.

Hack #3 - Use Your Fingers

While you focus on her clit with your mouth, use your fingers to stimulate her vaginal opening or G-spot.

This dual stimulation can create intense sensations and feel good, eventually leading up to climax.

Hack #4 - Combine with Toys

Add a G-spot wand to your oral routine for a serious upgrade. While your tongue teases her clit, use the wand to target her G-spot for dual stimulation.

Start with slow, rhythmic movements, and don’t forget to adjust the intensity based on her reactions. Pairing oral with the wand creates sensations that will have her on the edge—then all you need to do is finish strong!

Marco uses a combination of oral sex and sex toys (G spot wand) to enhance Ivy's pleasure.

Hack #5- Explore Anal Play

Why settle for one when you can have both—or even three? Start with one lubed finger in her anus, teasing her clit with your mouth.

Then, slowly introduce a finger into her vagina for a combo that’ll have her seeing stars. Just remember—never take a shortcut from the back door to the front. Cleanliness is next to sexiness!

Hack #6 - Encourage Self-Stimulation

Encourage her to touch herself while you go down on her. This can help her feel more in control and intensify her pleasure.

This could look something like while you eat her out, she uses one or multiple fingers to rub her clitoris. Your tongue can focus on other areas of her vulva, and she can concentrate on her own pleasure. 

Marco encourages Ivy to engage in self-stimulation during oral sex for enhanced pleasure.

Hack #7- Use Sex Swings

The sex swing lifts her into the perfect position, allowing you to change positions and angles easily. It gives you full access to eat pussy without straining your neck or back.

Adjust the straps to have a better reach of her clit and vulva. With her legs free to move, you can explore every inch while staying focused on delivering mind-blowing oral pleasure.

Good? Sure. Great? Not yet. These 7 hacks will take your pussy eating skills from decent to legendary—time to prove it, mate.

To help you out, let me walk you through my personal checklist—because there's always room to level up your pussy eating game.

Andrew’s Checklist of Proven Pussy Eating Tips

Use this checklist to improve your pussy eating skills and give your partner the best oral sex experience possible.

Tip #1 - Make Her Comfortable

Set the mood with cozy lighting and chill vibes. Think less dentist’s office, more luxury spa. If she’s relaxed, she’ll let go and really enjoy the ride.

Tip #2 - Build Up Sexual Tension & Anticipation

Don’t rush it. Tease her inner thighs with soft kisses and light touches. Let the anticipation build—by the time you get there, she’ll be begging for more.

Tip #3 - Pay Attention to Her Cues

Her body’s basically sending you signals—moans, squirms, the whole works. Pay attention and adjust accordingly. It’s like GPS for pleasure.

Tip #4 - Show Her How Much You Enjoy It

“You taste so good, I could stay down here forever.” Let her know how amazing she tastes and looks. When you’re into it, she’s into it—it’s a win-win.

Tip #5 - Warm Up Her Pussy

Start with soft licks, gentle kisses, and blow warm air over her vulva. You’re not in a race—warm her up slowly, and she’ll be melting in your hands.

Tip #6 - Use the Inner Circle Oral Sex Technique

Circle your tongue around her vaginal opening, starting from the outside and working your way in. It’s all about precision here, mate—slowly build that intensity.

Tip #7 - Suck Her Clit

Gently suck on her clit and mix up the pressure. Think of it like fine-tuning a radio—find the right frequency and she’ll be singing.

Tip #8 - Don’t Stop!

Once she’s close, don’t change a thing. Keep the rhythm steady and the pressure on until she’s totally satisfied—or better yet, reaching orgasm.
With these tips, you’re not just giving her oral—you’re giving her a full-body experience she’ll be thinking about for days!

Ah, you think that's it? There's more. Now that you’ve got the tools, let’s ensure you’re not accidentally sabotaging all your hard work with a few rookie mistakes. Time for the ultimate pussy eating do’s and don’ts!

Pussy Eating Do’s & Don’ts To Enhance Pleasure

If you want to eat her pussy like a pro, knowing what to do and—just as importantly—what not to do is key.

Over the years, I’ve had plenty of clients share their stories, and these do's and don'ts can seriously elevate her pleasure.

Trust me—follow these tips, and you’ll go from average to oral legend in no time.

Do #1 - Start Slow

Begin with soft kisses and light licks, and savor the build-up. Don’t rush in like you’re racing to the finish.

Why She Likes It

Starting slowly helps her relax, heightens her arousal, and lets her fully enjoy the moment. You’re setting the stage for what’s coming next.
I used to dive straight in, thinking faster was better. After Andrew suggested I slow down—game changer. My girl’s breathing got heavier, and when I finally reached her clit, she was already trembling. It felt like I was teasing her into a whole new level of pleasure. That small adjustment took things from ‘okay’ to ‘mind-blowing. — Steve, 33 AUS

Do #2 - Explore Her Entire Vulva

The clit is gold, but don’t neglect the rest—lick her inner lips, perineum, and the entire vulva.

Why She Likes It

Exploring her whole vulva provides a fuller, richer experience, hitting more of those sensitive nerve endings.
We don’t talk much about sex, let alone oral. But when I started paying attention to every part of her vulva—her inner thighs, her lips—it was like she couldn’t get enough. She told me it was the first time she ever felt fully pleasured. Changed everything for us. — Ahmed, 34, LB

Do #3 - Mix Things Up

No one likes a one-trick pony. Change the rhythm, pressure, and speed to keep her on her toes.

Why She Likes It

Switching things up keeps the experience exciting and prevents things from feeling routine.
I used to think the trick was sticking to one thing and riding it out. But nah, mixing up the pressure and speed? It blew her mind. One second I’m teasing her, the next I’m giving her everything. Keeps her guessing, and that’s when she really starts going wild. — John, 29, US

Do #4 - Love Eating Her Pussy

The golden rule: love what you’re doing. If you’re not into it, she’ll feel it.

Why She Likes It

When you’re fully enjoying eating her pussy, it turns her on even more and makes her feel desired.
You’ve gotta love it, mate. The more you’re into it, the more she is—it’s like you’re feeding off each other. — Paul, 40, AUS

Excellent work nailing the do’s, mate—now here’s where most guys trip up. Avoid these subtle mistakes that can throw her out of the moment because sometimes it’s not about what you do but what you don’t do that makes all the difference

Don’t #1 - Focus Solely On Her Orgasm

The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to prepare her body and her mind.

Why she doesn’t like it

Putting pressure on her orgasm can create anxiety and make the whole experience feel like a task, not pleasure.
Great stuff. Working with Andrew, I learned it’s all about the connection. When I stopped worrying about ‘getting her there’ and focused on loving every part of her pussy, man, the experience changed. The sounds she made, the way her legs wrapped around me—this wasn’t just sex anymore.

Don’t #2 - Dive Into Fingers Too Early

Keep your fingers out of the game—at least for now. Start with your mouth, and let your fingers come in when the moment’s right.

Why she doesn’t like it

Jumping in with fingers too soon can overwhelm her and take away from the oral experience.
Bruv, I used to think getting the fingers in early was the way to go, boy was I wrong. After waiting a bit and focusing on the oral, it was like her body just opened up. Timing, my man, timing is everything!

Don’t #3 - Be Stiff

Don’t be a robot down there. Loosen up, relax, and move naturally.

Why she doesn’t like it

A stiff, mechanical approach feels detached and can kill the intimacy.
I was so stiff, it was like I was performing a task on a checklist. But after learning Andrew's breath, sound, movement, and vocal expressions, I loosened up while eating her pussy. She went from quiet to practically yelling my name. Who knew that just relaxing could make such a difference? Now, it’s as much fun for me as it is for her.

Pussy eating can be pure magic when done right as you just read.

Receiving oral sex is about more than just lying back and letting him work his magic. Her role is just as crucial in making the experience pleasurable and memorable.

When she gets involved, it boosts the connection and makes the entire encounter feel tailored just for her. Here’s how she can maximize her pleasure when he goes downtown.

Ladies, read on this one is for you!

I. Wash & Shave Your Private Parts

This is less about “what he wants” and more about helping you feel confident and comfortable. Most women feel more at ease when freshly washed, which can set a more relaxed mood.

If you are worried about getting self-conscious down there, start with a gentle wash and consider shaving if that’s your thing. It helps keep everything clean and lowers the risk of irritations.

A hint of flavored lube can make things fun when he starts eating, adding to the sensory experience for both of you.

II. Move & Make Sound (Don’t Just Lay There Like a Starfish)

He needs to know you are enjoying it, so ladies, please don't hold back. Most women love feeling that rush of sensation when the whole body reacts.

Your verbal cues can guide him—moans, gasps, and even how your legs tense up all send the message that he’s on the right track.

You can even slowly insert your fingers if that’s what you enjoy, and let him watch. This kind of participation makes the moment feel shared, turning it into an experience that involves your whole body and soul.

III. Show Him What You Enjoy Most

Not every woman enjoys the same touch, so for you to guide him to what feels good for you is key.

Whether it's his tongue relaxing and focusing on your clit or exploring other erogenous zones like your inner thigh, you need to tell him what works. You can use your hands to place his fingers inside or around areas you love being touched.

It's the biggest turn-on for him to precisely know what makes you feel amazing. Keeping him in the same place for a while or changing it up is all about what you need to enjoy the experience. Clear communication will help him tailor the experience to your body’s needs.

Maximizing pleasure during oral sex isn’t about perfection; it’s about communication and engagement.

By getting involved—whether it’s guiding him to your favorite spots or using your voice to show your enjoyment—you are creating an experience that’s unforgettable for both of you.

Make it about what you enjoy, and trust me, he'll be more than happy to follow her lead.

What If These Pussy Eating Tips Don't Get The Job Done?

First of all, keep in mind that every woman has a unique figure and that practice makes perfect. To find the ideal mix for your partner, you might occasionally need to change the pace, intensity, or approaches.

Technique is crucial, but what matters most is how you give her your whole attention. Use your mouth, listen to her verbal cues, and match your breath to hers. Make her feel as though she is the only person who matters at that very moment, whether it is through direct clitoral stimulation or by softly inserting your fingers for interior stimulation. Great oral sex is made unforgettable by this kind of attentiveness.

Put an end to generalized filthy talk. Tell her when you see that she is really sensitive to a spot, such as when she gasps when you brush her vulva. say "I love how you melt when I use my tongue here." Every touch and phrase intensifies the moment when she senses that you are paying attention.

If none of those oral advice work, take a step back and concentrate on the fundamentals of eating pussy like an expert. Sometimes less really is more.